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  • May9th

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    When the fantastic Sarah from Yes and Yes asked on Twitter what we’d wished we’d known at 22, my answer was almost instant: Nobody will fight for your dreams if you don’t.

    Twenty-two was not too long ago. Barely three years ago. And this lesson is something it’s taking me a long time to understand; it’s also something I’m still learning. But here’s the thing: this is your life, and it’s ending one minute at a time. Fight Club. Chuck Palahniuk. A little fatalistic, I know, but definitely the kick up the arse some of us – me included – may need to get us going. Really going.

    And perhaps the problem was twofold. I had a pretty privileged childhood. I didn’t live in a palace or anything like that, but my parents made sure my sister and I were always happy and never wanted for anything. They took us travelling, sent us to a good school, encouraged our education, bought us nice clothes. And that may have made me a little lazy. I try to be as independent as I can, especially now that I’m living in a whole other country. But when you’re used to eventually getting what you want, you take it for granted that the same goes for your dreams. That you can just utter “I want to travel” and that eventually it would happen.

    Not so, my friends.

    The other problem was youth. Is youth, thank you very much *grins*
    Somehow, as soon as I turned 24 I  stopped considering myself ‘young’. Sure, I’m still young, but I’m not as young as when I was 18. I’m not a kid, just now opening my eyes and taking my first tentative steps into the world. I’ve actually achieved quite a bit: a college degree, a masters, I had a good job… and realizing how quickly everything is rolling by, I had to admit to myself I wouldn’t be young forever. My mind might, my spirit might, but I won’t be 24 forever. And when you’re young and you think life is at a standstill it’s easy to put things on hold while you explore different avenues. It’s good to explore different avenues. But when that one dream which has been poking you in the back pretty much all your life and which you have ignored because it may have been ‘inconvenient’ or ‘uncomfortable’ is still poking you in the back so many years later, then maybe it’s time to do something about it. Yeah?

    So there you go. If you have dreams, don’t expect anybody else to fight for them on your behalf. It’s you who has to do it. And yeah, it might hurt. And yeah, you may need to sacrifice some stuff for it. And yeah, there’s a possibility you will fail. But if I’m honest, I’d rather be upset at the failure than regret not having tried.

     

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  • April10th

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    It’s amazing how quickly, when you have a routine to adhere to, you settle into a new country. You pick your haunts: your local pub, your favourite restaurants, the cafe you go to when you’d like to spend the day reading, the bars you frequent… and unless you’re invited you’ll find you rarely stray away from them. It’s the same everywhere. Would you believe I lived in Malta for 24 years and never visited any of the megalithic temples?

    Sad but true. You can laugh at tourists all you want, brandishing their maps and cameras, but the truth is they often see more of a place than the locals do. And so, when friends come to visit me in Dublin, I like to pretend I’m a tourist too, re-exploring this beautiful country.

    Also sad is the fact that despite having been here for over seven months, I’ve barely been outside Dublin. I still haven’t seen Galway or Cork or Tipperary or Waterford or all the other lovely places I’d like to go. When my friend Vee came to visit a couple of weeks ago and suggested we take a tour of the Wicklow Mountains, Glendalough and Kilkenny, my obvious response was yes.

    It was a long tour, from 9 a.m. until 6 p.m., but absolutely worth it. This is the actual tour we went on. If you’re ever in Dublin and fancy seeing some beautiful scenery, I’d definitely recommend this tour.

    I could write for ages about how beautiful it all was, how sacred some of it felt, how overwhelmingly green; but I think I’d best show you. These are photos from Glendalough and Wicklow:

     

     

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  • March2nd

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    Going Places

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    I’ve been interviewed about travel, holidays and vacation woes by the lovely Lape.

    Click here to read!

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  • November30th

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    If you live away from home and you’re thinking about heading back for the holidays, it can be tricky to decide what to pack to cover all the bases – from Christmas parties to catching up with old friends over coffee. Especially if, like me, you’re limited by Ryanair’s luggage restrictions.

    So I’ve been thinking about what I should be packing so as to make the most of what I take and here’s what I’ve come up with:

    home for xmas

     

    1. Party dresses
    Choose two or three versatile party dresses in a solid, festive colour which you can wear again and again. Go for items which you’ve worn before and you feel comfortable in – it’s not nice to feel like you’re being asphyxiated by your Peter Pan collar at an open bar.
    2. Jeans
    Because you can’t go wrong with a good pair of jeans.
    3. Outerwear
    Think about taking two items: one nice coat you can wear to parties or even over a pair of jeans for a smart/casual event, and one jacket which keeps you warm. Try to make sure the colours match the rest of your clothes.
    4. Tights
    Take a pair in black and a couple more in different colours to mix up your party dresses. Black dress with shocking pink tights? Red dress with mustard tights? Love it.
    5. Sweaters
    Two or three warm, comfy sweaters will take care of those times you’re just hanging out at a friend’s house watching a movie.
    6. Tank tops
    Because you need extra layers if it gets cold.
    7. Shoes
    Don’t overdo it. Take one pair of pretty heels or flats to wear with your dresses, and one pair of trainers or boots for travelling and everyday wear.
    8. Bags
    One big bag to carry all your essentials and one little clutch for parties.
    9. Dressy tops
    You can pair these with your jeans and a pretty coat for a smart/casual look.
    10. Scarves
    Take four or five in different colours to jazz up your sweaters and transform your outfits.
    Other things to remember:
    Don’t forget your underwear! And make sure you take up some jewellery and perhaps a hat or two.
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  • October4th

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    So you’ve booked your holiday and you’re jetting off to a warm country for a week. Perhaps you’re off to explore Greece, or you’re visiting the pyramids in Egypt. Maybe you’ve booked yourself a trip to Dubai or you’re going sightseeing in Spain.

    You’re all set:  you’ve got your tickets and your passport. You’ve planned out your schedule and you’ve done your research about the place’s best restaurants and tourist spots.

    But a couple of days before your trip you begin to think about what you’re going to pack and it all gets a little confusing. How many pairs of shoes do you need? What type of material will keep you feeling as fresh as possible? How do you co-ordinate when it’s so warm you need to wear the bare minimum?

    As a regular traveller and a native of Malta, where summer temperatures have a tendency of reaching 42 celcius, here’s my advice:

    warm weather

    1. Swimwear
    Even if you’re not going on a beach holiday, if the weather is nice you’ll be tempted to swim and you’ll be kicking yourself if you couldn’t do that because your bikini was back home.

    2. Hat
    Whether you’re by the beach, roaming the streets of Rome or on a camel in the desert, if the sun is shining, you’re going to want a hat to protect yourself. You wouldn’t believe how easy it is to suffer sunstroke, especially if you’re not used to the heat.

    3. Skirts
    Take a couple of breezy skirts to see you through your sightseeing. Whatever you do, don’t be tempted to just throw your jeans into your suitcase. You won’t wear them if it’s too hot. Instead, opt for cotton skirts. If you’re going to a conservative country, consider taking a maxi skirt instead of a midi.

    4. Kaftans and tunics
    A good tunic or two will keep you comfy by the pool and can also be worn with leggings and flat shoes as a complete outfit.

    5. Accessories
    You won’t be able to layer cardigans and jackets to look stylish in the sweltering heat. Instead, layer necklaces, wear rings and earrings and slip some jangly bangles on your wrist. Think about taking a light scarf with you to cover up if you are going to visit cathedrals or mosques.

    6. Bag
    You only really need one bag. Make sure it’s pretty enough to take you from day to night and make sure it matches all your outfits. Your bag should be large enough to hold your camera, wallet and a bottle of water. If possible, ensure it has a zip to prevent petty theft (especially in busy cities like Rome and Barcelona).

    7. Sunglasses
    Not only will sunglasses make you feel like Audrey Hepburn as you stroll down the Champs Elysees, they will protect your eyes from the sun and make it easier to see on a very bright day.

    8. Leggings
    Wear leggings with tunics and long tops. If it gets cool in the evening, pop them on under your maxi skirt – also an effective way to keep mosquitos away from your legs. But please remember to ensure your top is long enough when you wear leggings. Leggings should NOT be worn as trousers.

    9. Flip flops
    Invest in a good pair of flip flops which you can wear to the beach and which are also pretty enough to wear out to dinner. You might want to practise walking in them beforehand because getting used to the thong between your big toe and second toe can be a little painful.

    10. Tank tops
    If your tank tops are long enough, belt them and wear them over leggings. Otherwise, pair them with a skirt, a pair of flats and lots of bling.

    11. Sunscreen
    It’s not a tan if you look like a lobster.

    12. Maxi dress
    You have to love the maxi dress. Dress it up or down and make sure it’s cotton or linen so you stay as fresh as possible.

    13. LBD
    Never travel without your Little Black Dress. You never know when you may need to glam up a little.

    14. Cardigan
    It can get pretty cool at night, especially if you’re out in the desert, so bring along a nice warm cardigan to throw over whatever you’re wearing.

    15. Flat shoes
    If you’re going to be exploring the city, take a pair of comfortable flat shoes. They go with anything and are easier to walk in than flip flops.

     

    Have I missed anything? What are your staples when packing for hot weather?

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  • September20th

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    This post was written by the lovely Claire, who blogs about travel, design and style, and whose blog you should go check out now. Go on!

     

    In December, it all comes to an end.

    My comfort zone, that is.

    In just a little over three months, I will say goodbye to my college years, my safe suburban job, my friends and family and even my cell phone in exchange for four months of stifling heat, minimal electricity and no indoor plumbing (not to mention the spiciest and most tantalizing food in the world, but we’ll get to that later).

    And you know what? I’m okay with this trade.
    Because I’m doing it for myself.

    For the past 21 years, I have based my decisions largely on the opinions of those around me.

    Elementary School Claire busted her plaid-jumpered butt to make her parents proud.
    High School Claire buried herself in study guides, extracurricular leadership titles and scholarship essays to impress those scary anonymous eyes at every university, scrutinizing her pint-sized resume to pieces.
    And College Claire? Well, College Claire has at least started to chill out. But even as recently as last semester, she pulled all-nighters with her laptop and showed up early every morning to the Graphic Design lab, determined to perfect that final project and ensure her portfolio was spotless.

    Has all this hard work paid off? Absolutely. After all, I wouldn’t be living where I do now, working in a kickass design firm if the “me” of high school had let her textbooks get a little dustier.

    But you know something, my friends? I’m tired.
    So. Very. Tired.

    Being sensible is exhausting. Working so hard for the sake of impressing someone really takes its toll. I’m sick of worrying about being the “perfect” candidate, the “star” student, the “ideal” daughter/roommate/[insert personal title here].

    I just want to be Claire. And Claire doesn’t want to be practical—she wants to be wild. So she’s booked herself a one-way ticket to the land of Bollywood, creamy vegetable korma and the silky salwar kameez.

    Yes, friends. I’m going to India. And I’m not making the trip to boost my resume or to impress my family. I’m making the trip because I effing want to. Against the uncertainty of living situations upon returning in May, against the concerns of my loving parents and against the urging of my boss to stick around and make some money, I’ve booked myself a one-way ticket to New Delhi. And I could not be more excited. These decisions all go back to the realization that I don’t want my life to be impressive by anyone else’s standards. I want it to be awesome by my own.

    Please don’t misinterpret my intentions to live according to my own agenda. Will I continue work my ass off? Definitely. Will I maintain healthy relationships with my neighbors and remain in close contact with my loved ones? Of course. Will I stay up until one a.m. fiddling around with Dreamweaver and Photoshop? On occasion, yes.

    But the difference, my friends, is that it’s not for the sake of someone else.

    Because here’s the thing: when all the spices of life boil down, the only opinion that matters is your own. Life happens once, and then it’s over. Do you really want to spend your entire existence, the only one you get, trying to measure up to someone else’s definition of perfection? I don’t know about you, but that seems like a lot of work for something that won’t even be around a hundred years or so from now (we all die in the end, remember? Including those people you’re trying so hard to impress).

    If you’re stressed about these big life decisions—where to live, how to generate income, what piercing to get, what foreign lands to see—take comfort in the world’s lack of permanence. It’s beautiful, really, the number of chances we have to begin anew. If you hate the university you chose, you can always transfer. If Bora Bora isn’t the utopian getaway you’d imagined, a flight home is as simple as booking the ticket. If you really want to change your course of action, it is always possible. And trust me, you’ll regret not doing it infinitely more than just plugging your nose and taking the damn plunge.

    It’s your life, my friends. How do you want to live it?

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  • August23rd

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    Right now, as you read this, I am probably 35,000 feet in the air, doing breathing exercises to curb my fear of flying, and having a panic attack about whether or not I’m doing the right thing.

    For as long as I can remember, I have dreamed of this day; of setting off to live in a new place with new people. While other girls were planning their weddings and cutting out pictures of wedding dresses, I was reading all about and cutting out pictures of the different countries I could live in.

    I dream of making the whole world my neighbourhood; of exploring it and loving it all.

    So yes, I am doing the right thing.

    But it is only natural that I am nervous. I am a whole cocktail of emotions. Fear is right there where the grenadine should be, but I am mostly excited and joyful.

    I am also somewhat sad, because sacrifices have to be made when you follow your dreams. Leaving the people I love behind is one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do. But I am blessed that they love me enough to let me go.

    I am excited about being a student again. I didn’t do my Masters degree as soon as I graduated and so many people told me I was silly and that once I entered the working world I would never study again. But I am glad it happened this way. If I had not worked for two years, I would not have the experience I do now and I would not know what I wanted. This new knowledge I’ll be getting – I can contextualise it now that I know what I know.

    I am so looking forward to learning all about things which will make me an even more valuable professional, and which will give me the opportunity to channel my creativity.

    I know this year will be over in the blink of an eye. Twenty-four years of hope and anticipation leading to one single year. That’s why I intend to milk this year for all it’s worth. I am going to sit for ten minutes every evening and meditate on just how lucky I am to be here and to have come this far. I am going to say only ‘yes’ to any new opportunity that presents itself. More than anything, I am going to make my camera a part of me. It will be more than a machine; it will be an appendage. And you guys get to share that experience with me, here, through my blog.

    It’s going to be a great year.

    But for now, I have some deep breaths to get back to.

     

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  • August9th

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    I’ve been pretty good about packing so far. Especially with clothes – I’ve made it a point to only keep items I wear and love, and which absolutely fit me. Anything I used to wear and love but which no longer fit I have thrown away or put in bags to resell and give to charity. Dresses, shoes, bags and trousers. No problem at all. It feels like shedding layers and making way for new things. It feels like a deep cleanse and it’s been wonderful so far – a chance to be honest with myself and just let go of things, material things, which are just things.

    And then… a problem.

    Last Friday, I decided to sort and pack all my underwear and makeup. Socks were no problem: I threw out all the ones with holes in them or which were starting to wear thin and threw all the others into a box.

    Ditto bras – anything I haven’t worn in over a year I ditched.

    When I got to panties, though, I started to become sentimental.

    About panties.

    I know.

    I’m the kind of girl who actually likes nice underwear and buys it and wears it, so I had accumulated quite a few pairs. And so even though I haven’t worn some of them in years, I started having trouble with getting rid of them. But I forced myself to do it and I threw away all the stuff I didn’t need in the end.

    Except one.

    There’s a pair of red knickers with Snoopy on them which I bought in Denmark when I was 17. I never wear them but I just couldn’t find it in my heart to throw them out. I tried three times, then fished them out again.

    So I guess the moral of this story is, um, if you find yourself plunging your arm into a garbage bag three times to retrieve a pair of old knickers, you should probably go with your gut and keep them.

     

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  • August3rd

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    My new home!

    Posted in: Dublin, Travel

    Right now, I’m a bit obsessed with Dublin. It’s understandable, I think. Since I was a wee kid I’ve wanted to move away from Malta and now the time has come and it’s all I can think about.

    Isn’t it beautiful?

     

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  • August2nd

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    My life right now is a flurry of boxes, suitcases and goodbyes. My life is in the process of being packed into boxes and sorted into two categories: stuff I can’t live without and stuff I can leave behind.

    Let me tell you, it’s not easy. There’s so much sentimental value attached to some of my things that it’s difficult to let go. I’m lucky enough for my parents to have offered me a part of their garage where I can keep some boxes with things I’m not taking to Dublin but which I can’t stand to throw away – like so many books! I’m only taking 10 with me. But I’ve always been a bit obsessed with my books, so I wouldn’t be able to give them away.

    Having said that, I sorted through my winter clothes today and came up with two big bags of stuff I don’t need anymore. It feels so wonderful to shed all those clothes I no longer wear and make space for the things I love (and for new stuff, ahem).

    And this evening I get to take on a new challenge: paint a wall, which is one of the items on my Bucket List. Will let you know how that goes. Fingers crossed it turns out alright. I’ve armed myself with a stack of newspapers, groundsheet and many many videos on the topic.

    Today also marks my last day at work. By the time this is posted, I’ll only have four hours left at the office. I feel sad to be leaving such a great team of people, even though it feels good to be going back to student life. But emptying my desk and realising that last Sunday’s newspaper was my last ever made me all sentimental.

    Either way, here’s to new beginnings.

     

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