This post comes courtesy of the wonderful Halley who blogs over at Life of Something New.
September27th
This post comes courtesy of the wonderful Halley who blogs over at Life of Something New.
September1st
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My friend Vee sent me an email today, linking to this post. I had to share it with you because it’s so true.
From here.
August19th
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Inspired by this post, here’s what I’m looking forward to:
In the short term: If you’re a regular reader, this should be pretty obvious. I’m moving to Dublin next week and realising my dreams of living abroad. I’m looking forward to exploring the city by walking around aimlessly and endlessly with Beirut and The Fleet Foxes keeping me company on my iPod. I’m looking forward to seeing Hannah again and living with her – lots of tea and talking and Scrabble. I’m looking forward to meeting new, interesting people with great stories. I can’t wait to start Tribal Belly Dance classes again and to join a book club. I look forward to being a regular at flea markets, thrift shops and little cafes along the Liffey. I’m looking forward to hearing the gorgeous Irish accent all around me and I’m secretly hoping it rubs off on me. I can’t wait to drink Guinness in an honest to god Irish pub, and watch improv comedy on weeknights. I’m looking forward to finding a theatre group that’ll let me join and continue to hone my skills.
In the medium term: I’m really excited about being a student again. I’m looking forward to starting classes for my Masters in Applied Digital Media. I can’t wait to learn about things like video production, audio production and digital storytelling. I’m looking forward to meeting my classmates and studying on the green on campus when the weather’s decent. I’m looking forward to coming home for Christmas and hugging all my family, then sitting down to our traditional Christmas lunch which I look forward to all year long.
In the long term: I’m looking forward to all the exciting possibilities my studies will open up. Maybe I’ll be a digital artist; maybe I’ll start making short films; maybe I’ll work for Google (a girl can dream). I’m looking forward to seeing where life takes me and to watching my story unfold.
What are you looking forward to?
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April28th
If you care for people, show them
I could never understand it when, as teenagers, my friends would say they never hugged their parents. Sure, I went through a pretty intense rebellious phase and there was a time I wouldn’t be caught dead hanging out with my parents – everybody experiences that at some point. But my family always made it a point to say ‘I love you’ every time we spoke on the phone, to say ‘good night’ every evening before bed, and to hug each other. I’m thankful for this, because it means I am not ‘embarrassed’ to tell my friends I care about them, or to hug them when they need cheering up.
Money is not everything, and it is there for spending
Sure – money is important and it’s very wise to put money away for a rainy day, but what’s the point of sitting in virtual poverty while the number in your bank account increases? Save some money, but use the rest to live your life. If you really really want something – a dress, a television, a fancy meal, a trip abroad, a book – then for goodness’ sake, buy it. You’ve earned it!
Be honest and don’t be greedy
My father is a businessman and he has succeeded in life because he has done his work honestly, worked hard, and has not tried to steal work from other people. He understands that it is more important to have people respect you than fear you. The world would be a much better place if everybody was like my dad in this regard.
Life is short
Whenever I find myself in a sticky situation and I discuss the problem with my father, his answer is ‘Life is short’. And he is so right. Life is fleeting; why waste it doing something that makes you unhappy?
Travel often
My parents made it a point to take me and my sister abroad several times a year when we were younger. We experienced new cultures, met new people, tasted new food and have a more open mind because we can see there is a world part the confines of the island we live on.
Happy birthday, Pa!
April12th
THE WIND and the Sun were disputing which was the stronger. Suddenly they saw a traveller coming down the road, and the Sun said: “I see a way to decide our dispute. Whichever of us can cause that traveller to take off his cloak shall be regarded as the stronger You begin.” So the Sun retired behind a cloud, and the Wind began to blow as hard as it could upon the traveller. But the harder he blew the more closely did the traveller wrap his cloak round him, till at last the Wind had to give up in despair. Then the Sun came out and shone in all his glory upon the traveller, who soon found it too hot to walk with his cloak on.
-Aesop
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This post was inspired by YouTube videos of Patsy Rodenburg and by watching clips of John Barton’s Playing Shakespeare.
I first happened upon acting when I was 10 years old. Of course, I’d always been a performer – I’d been dancing ballet since I was three, singing since I was five, playing the piano since I was six. I’d been in school plays and thoroughly enjoyed them. But despite this streak, I was awkward, shy, insecure. I had all this energy I couldn’t harness, which would come out in bursts – mostly when I was alone in my room, singing into my hairbrush-cum-microphone to an audience of Barbie dolls and teddy bears.
From my first class, I was hooked. Drama was a turning point in my life. I didn’t know it at the time, of course, but I was applying the techniques I learned in acting class to everyday life. This is the selling point of most drama schools for children today – it is a known fact that drama is a perfect tool for a child’s development. All the brochures will promise you that your children will be more self-controlled, will be better at making friends, will be happier and will do better in school if you send them to acting classes.
But why? What is it about drama that charms children (and adults!) out of their shells? What happens in those classrooms?
The answer, in one word: presence.
There is so much talk about being mindful. Thousands upon thousands of books, blogs and podcasts are available, waxing lyrical about the importance of being mindful. And they are absolutely right. Mindfulness makes for a better, richer life. So what are actors doing right?
Let’s consider the definition of acting for a second. Well, my own definition in any case. To the layman, acting might just look like learning lines off by heart, getting up on stage and pretending to be that character. Of course, there is some truth in that – that is the skeletal version of the actor’s job. But the flesh, the meat, the tendons – they are what make the difference between an amateur actor (of whom there are, unfortunately, so so so many in this country just looking to make a quick buck) and a good actor. The way I see it, acting is heightened living.
The actor’s affliction is that while ordinary people go through life reacting to circumstances, actors are self-conscious most of the time. I understand that non-actors will have moments of self-consciousness, but remember the actor’s job is to analyse people in order to be able to assimilate and mirror them. Actors need to be present. All the time.
Thing is, life makes you passive. It has to. It would suck to go through life dissecting all your reactions before you even express them. How would you know whether your happiness, grief, surprise and so on were genuine or studied?
And so, acting techniques are there to tilt you back into self-examination; to make sure that you are present in any given space. The beauty of presence is that you can absorb and fully experience everything that happens to you. It is the opposite of passive. To do this, deconstruction is required. Which is why you’ll see actors making funny sounds during their exercises, or acting like farm animals. When we do that, we are not being silly: we are dissecting and studying actions which have become so familiar to us that it is easy to do them passively.
The first reason why actors are better at life has to do with breathing. Breath: that involuntary process which keeps us alive. We all do it, mostly passively. But actors are taught from day one how to breathe. We are taught to relax our muscles, to breathe into our lungs, to extend our diaphragms. We are taught not to tense our shoulders when we inhale and we are taught to exert control when we exhale, so our voices and our very bodies are supported. This means we do not damage our larynx when we speak, and we can control our volume by projecting, rather than shouting.
Take that out of the acting context and you’ll understand why everybody stands to benefit from acting lessons. Speech is the primary means of communication. If you can do that well, then you’ll always be understood, and that’s important whether you are an actor, a student, a mother, a business owner or a salesperson.
Another thing you learn as an actor is how to stand properly. We are taught to find our centre of gravity, to elongate our torso and to make sure our head does not tilt to the side (the Alexander Technique is especially effective when it comes to learning posture). If you are grounded and centred, it is hard to knock you over, but it’s also easy for you to move. Having good posture means you are less likely to suffer from problems with your back.
If you can learn how to stand and breathe properly, you will already be improving your presence. The trick is to correct your posture and breath whenever you are aware of them.
Of course, there are many other reasons why actors are better equipped for life:
Actors work well within a team context. We know that there is a greater good – the play we are working on. It is easy to be a diva and to upstage your colleagues, but the truth is if you do that, you will end up looking like a jerk and the whole project will be a mess. We know our place within the team and we support each other to make sure the end result is the best it can be.
Yes, and. When you study improvisation, one of the better-known and more effective exercises is the ‘yes, and’ exercise. During improv, you are put on the spot and it is incredible what your brain will come up with under pressure. A lot of the time, you will end up in bizarre situations. You’ll be a couture-loving farmer stranded on an island with a ballerina and a jeweller, trying to catch wild boar for dinner. Typically, your superego will be like, ‘Dude, no’. Thing is, though, that ‘no’ is not conducive to creativity. If your partner asks you whether you would like a bucket filled with sea urchins, instead of laughing it off and saying ‘no’, you are expected to say ‘yes, they’ll make a great weapon against any predators’. Training your brain to always say ‘yes’ means you will be more open to ideas and, consequently, more open minded.
We are shameless. In the best possible way, of course. It’s encouraged to be child-like when you are acting. We are okay with trying new things and pushing our limits, getting out of our comfort zones, as long as the end result can be positive. We don’t make fun of each other because we’re all in the same boat. When I was at RADA, we had to assign animals to the characters we were playing, which meant we were all crawling around the room as dogs, tigers, seals and so on, speaking Shakespeare. Shameless, but tons of fun.
We handle criticism well. We actors know that there is always room for improvement and we are fine with our teachers or directors correcting us. Really, we know it’s for our own good. Of course, nobody should tolerate cruelty, but there is a big difference between insulting and criticising somebody.
We sympathise. Actors need to understand human psychology. The process of characterisation requires that we do not judge our character, but rather try to understand what exactly makes them tick.
Have you ever taken acting classes? Do you think they made you a better person or not?